I'll let an occasional mild four letter word get by. It's when members post with rants with foul language I'll step in & do something. I normally post a written warning first. I'll always give 2nd chances unless it's just flat out ugly.
As far as members posting symbols to replace letters I think along the same lines. As long as it's a mild word & only used maybe once or twice I'll let it slide for the most part. I've not had to give any infractions yet for language but have given a few warnings. We do need to keep the site clean though.
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